Saturday, 24 January 2015

The Lone Wolf Mentality: Room 101...

No one can truly be a person with a Lone Wolf mentality until one can come to first love, respect, believe, and compose ones self. This is the basic feelings of a person with a Lone Wolf mentality.

Question: How can a person ever be happy with them self even with the problems that they are current dealing with?
Answer: Lao Tzu is credited for this quote: "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." 

I took this quote in meaning that Lao Tzu believed that any struggles that someone may be experiencing in their lives can be overcome if they attempt to handle one issue at a time instead of trying to tackle it all at once. This is the quote that I, as a person with a Lone Wolf mentality, have come to rely upon even during my lowest of times. When a person with a Lone Wolf mentality can come to this level of realisation and acceptability with them self, then their life's problems or hardships don't appear to be too impossible to handle. Others also come to see a person that possesses a Lone Wolf mentality as be a person that displays a humbling confidence about them self. We are usually easily approachable. And, ironically, we work well with a team during tasks or assignments. And, we attempt to steadily using "... Journey of a thousand miles..." metaphors from their personal experiences during our encouragements and constructive advice with others.

A person with a Lone Wolf mentality tends to rely on their past experiences and hardships when they are dispensing advice or comforting support to someone. And, people with a Lone Wolf mentalities usually end up gravitating towards one another and develop a good trusting because of their similarly experienced problems and hardships. People with Lone Wolf mentalities will always very feel relaxed and trusting around each other while hanging out together. Even when time has passed between two of them, people with Lone Wolf mentalities don't let that be an issue between them because they both acknowledge and respect each others need to enjoy their spatial boundaries, or personal space.

Yesterday, the woman that I ended our dating relationship with called me. I continued to provide a supportive conversation with her during our telephone call; but, this time is was more of the role of a good friend rather than someone that was dating her. I stayed away from any conversation during our phone call that drifted into the question of us possibly resuming a dating relationship. I just wanted this woman to know and feel that I was proud of her new promotion and career move to another casino that appears to value her culinary and professional experience. I have been encouraging woman all things will become possible for her as long as she takes it one day at a time. And, I was glad that this woman felt that she could still contact me to talk with each other as friends.

A person with a Lone Wolf mentality is not really that hard to figure out cause we attempt to keep things that are occurring in our life as simple as possible. We see life a being to short for drama; and, we tend to repel ourselves away from those that seem to want to constantly keep drama in their lives. A person with a Lone Wolf mentality usually find creative ways to spend their alone time. We allow pets to be apart of our personal space. And, we have no problem being able to be frank and honest with another people when the need arises. To be honest with ones self and others is the typical foundation of a person with a Lone Wolf mentality.

When it comes to the essence of a person with a Lone Wolf mentality, it is something that a person ever needs to say to another like-minded person that they may encounter. We will usually pick up that "vibe" from each other instantly from the moment we began conversing with each other. We can be sometime be misunderstood by society as being either "anti-social"; but, that stereotype is immediately dispelled after spending some time with us. I enjoy my Lone Wolf mentality. I have gotten this far in life with it.

A person with a Lone Wolf mentality is possessing a never-ending way of thinking during the span of their lifetime. I believe that I'm a better person in my personal life and at work because of this mentality. If I also managed to find that special someone during my journey to obtain a more healthier, secure, and stable lifestyle, then that would be a definite bonus. So, taking matters into their own hands in order to improve their own well-being and lifestyle is the objective of a person with a Lone Wolf mentality.

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