This is one of the questions that I have been asking myself for many years since I began this life's journey in an attempt to discover what makes a person want to have a lone wolf mentality. Even up until now, I really don't have an answer to this question. I am happy being single. I love the freedom to do what I want to do, go where I want to go, and be whom I want to be without worrying about affecting a significant other in my life. I am not a relationship type of person; and, I am okay with that fact about myself. Any woman that attempt to change frame of thought about relationships is only going to end their efforts in self heartbreak for them. I am who I am with no apologies, when it comes to my personal views towards relationships.
A person with a lone wolf mentality does not like the feeling of being controlled, of being restricted, and of being domesticated even at the expense of hurting the feelings of another that would like to have a relationship with them. It is futile to attempt to enter into a serious relationship with a person that has a lone wolf mentality, especially if that person is not mutually attracted to them. In fact, a person with an "infatuation" or "crush" on a person with a lone wolf mentality will only be heading towards an awkwardness of friendship, then personal heartache of being rejected as a friend, and eventually isolated from that lone wolf's life all together. This is the way of a person with a lone wolf mentality.
A person with a lone wolf mentality "only loves whom they may love." If the object of a lone wolf's affection doesn't feel the same way towards them, that lone wolf will either choose to be in the "friend zone" with that person; or, the lone wolf would just remove himself or herself from that person's life all together. There won't be unnecessary drama from a person with a lone wolf mentality if they are rejected by the object of their affection because that is not our way of being. A person with a lone wolf mentality is not into causing anyone any drama in their life. We treat others as we would like to be treated. All life is sacred to a person with a lone wolf mentality. And, life is too short to spent being angry, negative, and/or depressed over the things that we cannot control or have. A person with a lone wolf mentality is a wanderer by nature, so we will know when it is time for us as a person to move one to the next episode of our lives. This is the way of a person with a lone wolf mentality. This is my way as a person.
A person with a lone wolf mentality feels that it is imperative to be respectable and considerate of others in their personal and professional life. So, when one of a lone wolf's friends unnecessarily and immaturely confronts another one of lone wolf's friends, that lone wolf will usually began to distance himself or herself from that person due their selfish agenda towards them. From my experiences, people with selfish agendas usually act without thought of how their actions or behaviour may appear or affect others that they are confronting, which can be problematic to a lone wolf's pack of family and/or close friends. We, as lone wolves, shouldn't have anyone that show a capacity to be jealous or resentful in nature of others in our pack. This is the one exception to a person with a lone wolf mentality: There are times when pack of wolves that are on the same page in life or better than a group of individuals. Those people who claims to be a friend of a lone wolf, who causes drama or static for their own selfish agendas with other friends of the lone wolf, should be immediately removed from that lone wolf's circle of close friends for the safety and well-being of the whole pack. Maintaining the safety and well-being of their family and circle of close friends should be a priority of a person with a lone wolf mentality from those with a selfish agenda towards them.
Do not ever mistaken the friendship and kindness of a person with a lone wolf mentality as being naive to the selfish agendas of another. Awareness of others' selfish agendas usually become immediately known to a lone wolf. A person with a lone wolf mentality only weakness is giving too many people the "benefit of the doubt"with their agendas towards them. In order to maintain a positive way of life with himself or herself, a person with a lone wolf mentality must not allow those with selfish agendas into their inner sanctum of family and close friends. If a person with selfish agendas towards a person with a lone wolf mentality towards them is validated from more than one source, it would best for the lone wolf to limit their personal interactions with that person. This is the mind of a person with a lone wolf mentality.
