Lone Wolf and Religion: I am unorthodox with my religiousness believes. Meaning, that I am a spiritual person without feeling the need to impose my religious views on anyone. I say this not about myself to suggest that a person with the mentality of the Lone Wolf feels the same way that I do about religion. I 'm not saying that at all. I am only stating that whatever a Lone Wolf believe or not believe in regards to religion should be of their own free will.
I used to get all stressed out with other telling me that, "The Bible say this..." or "The Bible says that.." about me not being married. I don't believe that God will not allow me into Heaven, if I don't ever meet anyone to marry. And, any religion that believes in a God that won't let a single person enter Heaven because that choose to live a single, stress-free life, is not a religion that I choose to follow. When it comes to religion, this is my Lone Wolf way...
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Lone Wolf and Love: I love the ideal of being "in love", yet I can't seem to allow myself to " fully commit" to a more relationship with a potential soul mate. Again, this has nothing to do with a person with a Lone Wolf mentality. But, it is consistent with our dating lifestyle. A person with a Lone Wolf is very cautious about the people that they allow into their "circle of trust". The gauge being to rises as their relationship with someone become more serious.As I stated before, I sorta describe myself as feeling more "claustrophobic" as a woman began to display symptoms of wanting our "causal" dating relationship to become something more.
Question: Why am I "stubborn" about not wanting to be in an serious relationship with someone?
Answer: I am not stubborn. I choose to not enter into a serious relationship cause, up until now, I don't usually see a future with that person that I am causally dating.
I know that I may be choosing these women on purpose in order to stay out of serious relationships. But, a person with a Lone Wolf mentality knows what they want out of life. If I ever meet a woman that seems effortlessly natural whenever I am around them, then I know she is the woman that I would like to pursue a more serious relationship with them. And, this is my Lone Wolf way.
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Lone Wolf and Hate: To dwell on hate, is not a healthy to do for anyone. I am sorta moronic with that previous sentence in that I also allow my hate to fester inside about someone instead of "getting it out in the open" with them. A person with a Lone Wolf mentality would most likely rather just avoid or no longer be around anyone that they deem as a "negative person". To give a person a moment of your hatred, is give that person power over your emotions and well-being. I can't live that with my life. Lately, I decided to be more "civil" with those that I used to allow to affect me in a negative way. I also, in turn, chose to be around anyone that have a negative affect on me.Question: How do I deal with those coworkers at work that have a negative influence on you?
Answer: I choose to do the opposite of what they expected me to behave from their negative actions.
Of course, it is definitely "easier said than done" on some days than others while at work. But, I am getting better at it day by day. This is my Lone Wolf way.
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Lone Wolf and All the things in between: Overall, my life is as good as a single person can expect out of life. I never been married, I don't have any children, and I own a pet that is both house trained and smart. I make enough money to pay my bills and enjoy life a little. I am about to be able to have a little extra money in the bank for those upcoming "rainy days". And, I feel like I have a blessed life. Most importantly, I don't feel feel lonely.This past Saturday, I hung out with a person that I have come to known as a friend. He cleaned up and updated my computer while we caught up on things. My friend and I get along well with each other because he and I share the "Lone Wolf" mentality even though we both are coming from two different spectrum in life to get to the way that we are now. We are single guys ad we are both okay with it. We both would like to find that special woman to share our lives with, but we are patient to meet this potential person. And, we are both enjoying our new stress-free apartments.
Being a Lone Wolf is a way of thought. Like everything else in life, a person with a Lone Wolf mentality can successfully thrive in a serious relationship. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. there is nothing wrong with us. If a person wants to be single for the rest of their life, then is okay also. I don't see the rest of my life as a single person. I'm just not ready to be in a serious relationship, either. When it comes to "all things in between" I'm happy with where I am with social, work, and personal life. Where I'll go with my life is up to me and me only. And, I this is my Lone Wolf way...
